Tea Dating Advice 17+

I was skeptical when I first heard of this app. I was in one of the various “are we dating the same guy?” Facebook pages and someone recommended it. I tried it out when u got frustrated with beyond making a post anonymously not being able to comment on others posts with revealing your identity. So I was shocked to report everything this app claims to be is truly what it is! You can’t screenshot! No one can find your identity and it’s opened a space for women (some who typically would never have shared anything like this due to the horrific circumstances they’ve endured) to not only post looking for tea or red flags for a new love venture but a place to post men from either current or past relationships with abusive, narcissistic, unfaithful, dishonest, or criminal men. As a way to way others to steer clear of these men as to prevent another women from becoming their next victim! I initially was concerned it would turn into A high school mean girls situation and could get ugly fast. However I was happy to see women uplifting others and not character assassinating men out of jealousy or spite. I feel in this digital dating era an app like this has been long overdue and as such women have used it as a safety tool not a gossip platform! Kudos to the strong brave women who embarked on creating this safe space and I can’t wait to see height where yall take this too!

The Tea app has the potential to be a truly helpful tool in the dating world, especially when it’s used for the right reasons. When used responsibly, Tea can help women avoid potentially harmful situations whether it’s with someone who’s emotionally manipulative, dishonest, or in more serious cases, abusive. One way I’ve seen it’s been useful is when women unknowingly discover they’ve been sexually involved with the same man. It’s not about drama, it’s more or so about health and safety. If someone is being sexually active with multiple partners and not being transparent, that’s a serious concern. This app can help women prevent a protect themselves physically and emotionally.

That said, the app loses its value when it’s misused for petty call-outs, revenge posts, or dragging someone over situations that could have been resolved privately. There’s a difference between holding someone accountable and using a public platform to shame people for personal gain. Like any tool, its power lies in how it’s used. If people approach it with honesty and integrity, Tea can genuinely protect women and create a stronger sense of community, accountability, and awareness in the dating world. I say keep it and just add better restrictions for those who use it for the wrong reasons.

This app is an actual LIFE SAVER for women who genuinely want to know if a guy is safe to talk to or not. A lot of women have been traumatized by domestic violence, sexual assault, stalkers and more. This app helps women to alert other women to steer clear from men like this. Now, males have found out about it through a viral tik tok video, and don’t like the fact that they are being held accountable for their actions and we are warning any potentially nee victims to stay away from them. The males even tried to create a tea app of their own called the “tea born” app, which they literally only created to try and further diminish the character of women, share explicit videos/photos. Clearly, the app was abruptly shut down as it was against so many laws and policies. I love this app also because it will verify you are woman before you can even be let in. Making it impossible for a male to try and sneak their way in. This tea app needs to stay up and running so women can warn other women. Police do not take our concerns serious sometimes, (a lot of the time) and this app is how the citizens are able to protect themselves, when the law chooses not to protect us. KEEP THIS APP ALIVE WOMEN!!!